During my Facebook self-exile I’ve had time to think, and time to process all the new and wonderful and challenging things in my life.
I’ve found myself dwelling on the question “What if …” in relation to where I’m at and where I’m headed as well as in relation to the people around me I care about.
There are some people in my world who are riding a wave, who can’t seem to put a foot wrong.
And there are other people in my world who feel trapped, fearful, afraid to dream, and as a result are not able to reach for their dreams.
If you feel trapped then this message is for you, because I can relate … I’ve been there, and I was stuck there for a long time.
I want you to take a moment, and read through this list of questions and then close your eyes and give yourself permission to question your current situation … and dare to imagine a better life.
What if ..
What if everything you’re going through at the moment is preparing you for a dream bigger than you can imagine?
What if the fears you allow to run untethered through your mind are not predictors of your future reality, but just the primitive parts of your brain trying to keep you from playing big, trying in their own misguided way to keep you “safe”?
What if your past actually didn’t determine what amazingness your future holds?
What if that person you really liked actually really liked you back?
What if your challenging financial situation could be turned around in a reasonably short period of time with a series of focussed decisions and actions?
What if the new people coming in to your life brought about a whole new beautiful change of direction for you?
What if you were able to lift your eyes up from looking at the current challenges for long enough that you caught a vision for how your life will improve and where you’ll be in 12 months from now?
What if you were able to relax enough to release your fears and dream, I mean really dream about the amazing things you will achieve? You know, those things you already have the capacity inside of you to achieve!
What if the beliefs you hold about your connection with the universe actually worked, and you were able to manifest a truely extraordinary future for you and your family?
What if you were able to see beyond the excess kgs, the stretch marks, and the wrinkles, and see the truly beautiful human that you really are?
What if you had the ability to release the fear of other peoples’ opinions of you, and be completely free from their judgement and negativity?
What if you stopped focussing on trying to change yourself, and instead focus on finding yourself?
What if you were courageous enough to live your truth – not the truth that others are telling you they want for your life but that brutally honest authentic truth that wells up from the deepest most extraordinary depths of your spirit?
What if you were able to forgive that person so you are no longer energetically tied to them, and you were able to finally … FINALLY … move on with your life?
What if you forgave yourself?
What if you were able to love without fear?
What if you truely learned to love yourself?
The big lesson I learned when I had my epiphany last August was that I already have the ability in me to do all these things.
You have everything you need within you to do live each and every one of those What Ifs
By stepping in to my truth and having the courage to acknowledge who I really was …
… I became free, in a way that has been beautiful and extraordinary and unlike anything I imagined was ever possible for my life.
My dream for you is that you are able to step out of your fear and into your own truth … your “what if” 💕